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Remember that sometimes a nice word to say to someone can help him change his whole life. Although after a few minutes you completely forget about it, it can still remember it for years. I remember once vanished with a friend, who did not believe that has any chance of getting into graduate school. She wanted to study architecture, the most besieged direction at that time, and was convinced that it will not get it. When I said something, I replied that I fully believe in it and I am convinced that such an intelligent person as she is able to achieve its objective, if only for it to work consistently. I said it did not, thinking that this will have any impact on its future. Only a year later, during our next conversation I learned that it has successfully passed the architecture and congratulating her, I heard words like \"thanks, that you believed in me. Without this, unless zrezygnowałabym the desire to become an architect. \" As you can see it is worth to remind people about their good sides. Sometimes one word of yours, it may help someone to change his destiny. Give your girls, and even all the people you meet, compliments. Each of us wants to be appreciated, admired and respected. Each of us shade themselves more severely than others. It was the compliments we can provide evidence of people in our sole discretion. Remember, however, to talk only about features that they admire repair. If you want to know my strategy, it will tell you that whenever someone I recognize from the outset, I wonder what her / him I like and what you can from her / him to learn. This allows me to tremendous growth in self and others to easily appreciation by telling them about the characteristics that they value. Accept this strategy, and enjoy its excellent results. Tell your girlfriend what you admire in them, and they will remember you for years. Of all his peasants will remember only the one who was so open to other charitable words to express admiration and appreciation. | | |