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Do you ever wondered if man can survive without a sense that he is someone important? Certainly no more than drinking or eating, but it is a basic emotional need of man, which in no way should neglect. All we need to "be someone important, who is appreciates and admires. I do not know whether you know but sometimes people even give up the physical needs for the need to be someone important. Look at the strikers and making representatives of the hunger strike groups. At first glance, they are acting totally irrationally, because trying to attract attention from the government or the public, not eating or taking fluids. However, when we realize how much people need a sense of validity, their behavior becomes understandable to us. In the net in one day, Mr. John Smith, one of the gray million citizens, decides to starve and I become a public person, and the likeness of his landing in the headlines of all national newspapers. For the first time in the life of journalists interested in what he has to say, and the authorities in person with the treats. It does not do this just for himself but for his social group, which won recognition and respect of hundreds like him, men and women. In fact, the reason for the strike is less important, the main motivation of John Smith is the need to be someone important who you count other people. Subconsciously, has had enough of being a member of the human gray matter, "and wants to become" somebody ". He starved his desire to be someone important, and finally found a way to meet. Sometimes this desire to meet our most important need for emotional, not dressed in the measures themselves and do great harm. Probably heard about the Iranian "living bombs". These were people who wore wearing explosives and detonation of strategic places them killing themselves and others. Contrary to appearances, they were not desperate, Offset psychopaths and people who are very anxious to become "someone important". | | |